Personal responsibility in kinkIn my last blog, Understanding the Complexities of Consent, I talked about some basic rules and consent models for ethical kink. Today, I'm…2d ago2d ago
BDSM Rules: Understanding the Complexities of Consent — Dr. Gloria BrameLet’s talk about something important that affects not just the kink community but all intimate adult relationships: the rules and…Feb 25Feb 25
5 Keys to a Lasting Kink RelationshipWhile some kink relationships burn hot and then implode spectacularly, you might wonder — how do some people manage to have a lasting kink…Feb 11Feb 11
Did she consent to that?Carolee ‘s relationship with her dominant was falling apart. She wasn’t sure who was to blame: sometimes she thought it was all her fault…Dec 21, 2024Dec 21, 2024
4 Ways Dominants Self-SabotageWhat’s true of subs is often true of doms, particularly when it comes to relationship skills. Today, I’m following up on my last blog, 5…Dec 10, 2024Dec 10, 2024
5 Ways Submissives Self-SabotageWhat is the hardest type of relationship problem subs have? It’s recognizing — and addressing — self-sabotage.Nov 23, 20241Nov 23, 20241
What Is the Psychobiology of Sexual Behavior?The psychobiology of sexual behavior is an analysis of how mind and body shape your sex life. In brief, how you feel (psychology) impacts…Nov 8, 2024Nov 8, 2024
Sex Addiction or Sex Compulsion?I always know someone took an online “sex addiction test,” when their first words to me are “I’m a sex addict.”Oct 26, 2024Oct 26, 2024
Living with a FetishTo this day, the top problem I see in my practice is that people living with a fetish are convinced that despite having functional lives…Oct 11, 2024Oct 11, 2024